3) The crucial aspect that you left out in the question is the role of the Monsoon trough. The monsoon is not just made of winds alone converging rather it is the north to south movement and sometimes south to north movement of the monsoon trough along the Indian subcontinent that researchers and forecasters track. Why is that ? It is because systems form within the monsoon trough. What governs the movement of the monsoon trough up and down the Indian subcontinent ? Well that is a topic beyond the scope of this question.
4) So the monsoon trough includes westerly winds in the equatorward section and in the poleward section you have trade winds. The Himalayan branch from that definition contains easterly winds and not westerly winds from the Arabian Sea.Actually Arabian Sea winds only have a secondary role in providing moisture for systems to form in the Himalayan side.
5) Finally the Indian Himalayas only receive rainfall when the monsoon trough is located along those latitudes. This condition is known as a "break monsoon" condition and it happens when sub tropical westerlies are present aloft. This usually happens after the monsoon has provided rain to the southern parts of the country including the western ghats.
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